: i don't have "play me" written on my forehead...

interest; "something that concerns, involves, draws the attention of, or arouses the curiosity of a person"...


it stumps my mind when a guy says he is interested in me, yet shows nothing (nor presents "words") that gives me the notion that he really is. when an individual is interested in another person, he or she will take the initiative to show that other person that there is such an interest..right? or am i just crazy? because if i am crazy, say it. but, this is how i see it;

when i am interested in a guy, at first, i'll dabble my feet in the water a little bit; meaning, feel him out and make sure that it's not just a physical attraction (looks can only go so far). i'll start to get to know the guy by communication. ah ha; the key to letting someone know that you're interested and wanting to get to know them, is mainly thru communication (the physical aspect i shouldn't have to go into)..no? the saying "i'm interested in you" only goes so far. without backing that statement up, it means SHIT. if i'm interested in a guy, i will make him aware by simply communicating; letting him know i'm thinking about him, asking him questions about his life, calling, texting, communicating, taking a few seconds out of my busy day to say hello and see how his day is; but not so much that it smothers him, but enough to make him think about me too. so, i do my part, and he says he is still interested, but i don't see any reciprocation, therefore, to me the statement "i'm interested in you" means SHIT.

i want to know why men don't back up their words, why they seem dishonest and perhaps why they use "clever" comments to reel in a girl. i mean, how hard is it to tell a girl "i'm really not interested in YOU per say, i am mainly interested in getting laid by you" or "i'm just not interested in you anymore". is it so hard to be honest? what women really want is an honest guy. so with that being said, to all you men, be fucking honest. don't string these women along with your "clever" comments to just get laid; be clear and honest about what you want from the get-go and then follow up; be a man and stand by your word; and if you're just not into her anymore, be fucking honest and tell her. she isn't going to go cry to her momma, she is going to move on. us women don't like games. and if we wanted games, we'd go play a fucking game of monopoly. so if you're going to play a game, you can go take yourself elsewhere because this girl does not have "play me" written on her forehead.