: what do men want?

i often wonder what men want; but i guess it depends on the type of man right? in general though, what do men really want? i feel as though it's always about a woman who is good in bed- because let's face it, studies have proven that the deal breaker for any relationship is if a woman is good in bed or not. but besides sex, what else does a man want? men don't really make it clear on what they are actually looking for in a woman.

randomly speaking; of course no man wants a woman who isn't motivated or goal oriented, but often times i see the woman who doesn't carry any of those traits, getting the "ideal" man. ideal man to me meaning; head on straight. i often wonder how a woman who posesses no positive traits can get a man with such idealness. is it because the man wants the woman who makes him feel better about himself? because if she doesn't have her shit together and he does, it makes him feel like he is "the shit"?...i think i am 88% positive that i'm correct on this one.

...but again, what do men really want? because for so long, i thought i had it all figured out; cook, clean, sex, give, let him do what he wants, don't ask questions, give, sex, repeat. (that's the abbreviated list) um, yeah, that hasn't worked for me, so i am stumped to know what else there is to do to make a man happy? maybe i just have no game? or maybe i don't set me standards up high enough to where a man will appreciate all those things i do for him..maybe that's it.. maybe iiiiiiii am the problem; not the guy, me. maybe i really do know what men want, i just can't find a guy who appreciates all i have to offer. i think i just hit the nail on the head...